We are missing someone tonight... and I can feel it. We have entered the phase of "sleepovers" and Grace is off to a birthday party/sleepover at her good friend's house tonight. This is her third sleepover and so far so good. She loves them! The one thing she told me this morning is that she hopes they don't go to bed too late tonight! She can be so funny - she loves her sleep (unlike her little sister). I have such good memories of sleepovers from my own childhood and I hope the same for Grace. She has a few really good friends and I'm proud of her for that. As a mommy though, I'm having bittersweet thoughts about how fast she is growing up. I've said this before but I just want time to slow down!
Grace's next birthday party will also be a sleepover and I'm looking forward to it. It will be a small number of girls (thankfully) and I will have a few activities planned but mostly it will be the girls just "hanging out". My opinion is that they should be able to find ways to entertain themselves - I remember dancing, planning airbands (oh my, what a blast from the past) and singing our hearts out.
So in Grace's absence, we have rented movies and are going out to dinner. At least we still have our two little ones to keep us company.
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Grace is on the left... with her good friend (and distant cousin) Olivia. |
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ReplyDeleteLove airbands! Give them a video camera for a bit to capture their self-entertainment. I'm so scared of sleepovers because all of the horrors I envision in my head but I know I have to let Carmen go (within reason). I felt so bad though, Carmen got sad on her first night away and called to say goodnight and I slept right through (woops!)- bad mommy moment, but likely all for the best.
ReplyDeleteThat is a great idea... and she has a camera to! Next time for sure - that would be so funny and really fun for her. I understand the scariness/nervousness though. Tonight we went out for supper and came home to a message on the machine and my first thought went to Grace... did she need us? Nope. It was someone else.
DeleteTime flies, doesn't it Deb? I can't believe your Grace is old enough for sleep overs! Secretly, I can't wait for this phase! I love giggling girls! Hope she had fun and got enough rest.
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